Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. shared these words in his 1963 book Strength to Love. Over the last week, I have been reading a lot of Dr. King’s words as I look for guidance to keep my head above the water. I am weary. Likely you are too. I am weary with all the confusion and chaos and clinging to the myth of redemptive violence that seems to be our culture’s default position.
I have been struck this week by the litanies from many in leadership who rightly affirm the failure of violence to solve our problems, while in their next breath, they call for the execution of those who perpetrate it. The maintenance of the death penalty in our nation when so many other nations have long since abandoned it is a telling indicator of our attachment to this form of state violence, an attachment that defies our own logic and belies our words.
In his 1964 Nobel Peace Prize lecture, Dr. King stated, “Violence is impractical because it is a descending spiral ending in destruction for all. It is immoral because it seeks to humiliate the opponent rather than win his understanding: it seeks to annihilate rather than convert. Violence is immoral because it thrives on hatred rather than love. It destroys community and makes brotherhood (sisterhood) impossible. It leaves society in monologue rather than dialogue. Violence ends up defeating itself. It creates bitterness in the survivors and brutality in the destroyers.”
“It leaves society in a monologue rather than a dialogue.” And that is exactly what it feels like right now to me in our sound byte, siloed, social media world. How do we grow as human beings, how do we solve hard problems, how do we create opportunities for healing and hope if we are only talking to ourselves, only listening to the echo of our own voice or voices that sound just like our own?
One of the strengths of TADP is that we never shy away from hard conversations. If people are willing to sit down, share honestly, and listen respectfully, we are too. We may not agree at the end of the conversation, but we will have created a relationship that we can keep building on, step by step, conversation by conversation.
The truth is that there is no us and them…only us. And we must not give up on us. We must keep reaching out, keep sharing, keep listening, and keep believing that a way forward is possible.
I will close with more of Dr. King’s words from his Nobel Peace Prize lecture. His words are as true today as they were when he spoke them 61 years ago:
This call for a worldwide fellowship that lifts neighborly concern beyond one’s tribe, race, class, and nation is in reality a call for an all-embracing and unconditional love for all men (people). This oft misunderstood and misinterpreted concept so readily dismissed by the Nietzsches of the world as a weak and cowardly force, has now become an absolute necessity for the survival of man (humanity). When I speak of love I am not speaking of some sentimental and weak response which is little more than emotional bosh. I am speaking of that force which all of the great religions have seen as the supreme unifying principle of life. Love is somehow the key that unlocks the door which leads to ultimate reality…Let us hope that this spirit will become the order of the day…We can no longer afford to worship the God of hate or bow before the altar of retaliation. The oceans of history are made turbulent by the ever-rising tides of hate. History is cluttered with the wreckage of nations and individuals that pursued this self-defeating path of hate. Love is the key to the solution of the problems of the world.
Peace and love,
Stacy

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